Turn Around and You Have Grown....

Last week I had an opportunity to take a good look at the end results of some of the work we have done at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel with young people. I had a chance to attend our Athletic Association's Opening Day ceremonies for both the clinic (under six) group and, a few days later, the older students. As some of you may know Our Lady of Mt. Carmel is known as "soccer country" and children begin to learn the game almost as soon as they can walk! The Athletic Association is an organization of our parish which gives kids a chance to learn the game and play in age groups against teams from other parishes all over the Archdiocese. The group is energized by the volunteer efforts of hundreds of parents and others in the community who give untold hours of time coaching, selling consessions and cheering for these little athletes.
Last week I attended the Clinic Opening Ceremonies so that I could see my grandson, who is five, begin his season. I must say that the concept of soccer is still a little foreign to him--"Why won't that orange team share with us?" " Where do I run to score a goal?" "Why can't we run past the cones?" he asks. These questions come up on a regular basis as we try to explain the differences between sharing vs. competing and rules vs. free play! The process of learning how to play on a team is a long one and we are just beginning.
While at the game last week, one of my jobs was to keep an eye on my other grandson, who is fourteen months old, so that his mom could help coach. I spent lots of time on the playground making sure that mulch was not eaten and on the field making sure that no one toddled into the field of play! In the midst of this wonderful but exhausting activity, I looked up and saw the bleachers full of parents, grandparents and friends. That is when the song "Turn Around" flew into my head and I began to think about accomplishments.
Rarely does a person talk about Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School or parish without using the word "family" within the first three sentences uttered. We are a community that values family. We are a community whose members treat one another as family. And, we are a community which instills that value in our young people. That value results in spending time with one another, respecting one another, supporting one another's interests, and affirming the contribution we each can make to better our individual families and the Mt. Carmel family. When I looked over at the bleachers last week, I was thrilled to see so many of our former students with their young children. They were cheering for them, coaching them, and teaching them. Right next to those young parents, stood the grandparents--those parents with whom I worked years before when their children (now the parents) were young.
Two notions crossed my mind at that moment. I was so proud of those young parents for choosing to be involved with their children in our community. I could see the love they had for those little ones and sense the sacrifices they are willing to make for them. I recognized that these parents were already setting an example of leadership and service for their children as they supported the soccer program. These are some of the values we taught them so many years ago in our school and in our parish. Faith and family go together and form the foundation for everything else. Service and leadership are the concrete ways we express our faith. I was so happy to see these grown-up former students and so proud of the parents they had become.
My second thought was more nostalgic. How could time have passed so quickly? How could these kids I knew have children of their own? That moment was a reminder to value all the minutes we have with our chldren. The words of that old ballad ring true--"Turn around and they are tiny, Turn 'round and they're grown, Turn round and they're young wives with babes of their own..." It is truly a gift to be able to see the wonderful parents my former students have become! I wonder how they got so old and I didn't??? Did I???

Opportunity Knocks and New Voices Resound

One of the positive aspects of my new job as President of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School is that I have the responsbility to share the great news about our school with others. Most of the time, I feel that I am "preaching to the choir" so to speak, because my listeners are often members of the Mt. Carmel community. I talk to parents, faculty, and students and often they already know the stories I am sharing. So, I was elated when Anna Renault, one of our Board members, invited me to be a guest on her blogtalk radio show. The topics included the benefits of Catholic education and, more specifically, the benefits of a Mt. Carmel education. I was in my glory!
Yesterday was the day that the live show aired. (Listeners can hear the show repeated at www.blogtalkradio.com/anna-renault/2011/09/06/kathysipes-)My excitement turned to nervousness when I discovered that the show was two hours long. All who know me would agree that I have the "gift of gab" but two empty hours looked fairly daunting as we prepared to begin! I should have realized that talking about all the programs available at our school and our great students could be a VERY long converstation! I also took some support help! Kevin McDonough and Kory Puller, our Student Government Co-Presidents, joined me for the on-air interview. Kory and Kevin added comments and personal anecdotes that were not only accurate and interesting but also affirmed all that we were highlighting about our school.
The two hours flew along as we talked about our goals for the students, the 95% who attend college each year, the college classes they can take before they graduate, the tremendous amount of service they do at every grade level,and the great faculty and staff that enable them to achieve success. Anna Renault was adept as she led us from topic to topic and emphasized many of the ideas we were sharing with personal anecdotes of her own.
Anna is an example of a "Mt. Carmel lifer!" Anna's mother taught in the elementary school. Anna and her siblings attended the elementary school and the high school, and she is now a member of the parish as well as a recent appointee to the School Board. She writes for the local newspaper and is a published author of an autobiographical book called Anna's Journey,which chronicles her life and faith journey as she battled several bouts of cancer. Anna credits Catholic education with her excellent writing skills. She also exhibits, without even realizing it, a true spirit of generosity,endurance,and commitment. I would like to think that some of those great qualities were nurtured at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel as well. We were so grateful that Anna invited us to share our Mt. Carmel story on her show yesterday. The opportunity she provided allowed us to tell a broader audience about the education available at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel--We serve children from six weeks old through Pre-School at The Caring Place Childcare Center. We serve elementary aged children from kindergarten through grade five in our Lower School and students grade six through twelve in our Upper School! Anna surely gave us the megaphone, and I think that Kevin, Kory, and I became the "voice!"
So, yesterday was a learning day for me! I discovered two important things: First, generous people, like Anna, provide opportunities when we least expect them. Secondly, I learned that when you have a great story to tell, filling up two hours is easy! I hope that you take time to listen to at least some of what we had to share! (www.blogtalkradio.com/anna-renault/2011/09/06/kathysipes-)