A few weekends ago I witnessed a miracle of sorts! The Fall Festival, which is months in the planning stages, happened with a convergence of perfect weather, hundreds of volunteers, and the good spirit of an entire community. In this age of "all for me" and "I am out for myself", the good spirit of that weekend renewed my faith in the power of people to do good for a cause in which they believe.
Our Fall Festival which has happened on the first full weekend of October since the mid-sixties has a dual purpose. First of all, it creates tremendous spirit in the community of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel. Every group in the school and parish sponsors multiple booths of games or food. Rides are rented from a local amusement firm and the parking lot is transformed into a fair. The Festival is a full weekend of events and volunteers take shifts to man the booths. Over the course of the weekend hundreds of people participate. There are games for young children where everyone is a winner everytime. There are games of chance for lucky adults and there is food in abundance. The pit beef is to die for and there is nothing better than fried dough with powdered sugar covering nose to chin once a bite is taken. Friday evening has been dubbed Alumni Night and this year we renewed our relationship with more than two hundred graduates of our school. They came with stories of jobs and opportunities,introduced us to new spouses and children and reminisced about their days on campus. The value of this Fall ritual is priceless and everyone who particpates feels the energy and excitement that I like to call "Carmel Spirit."
The second purpose of the Festival is that it generates funds to support our school. The Carmel community understands that education is everyone's repsonsibility and people young and old work together to make the event a success. This year, though final tallies are not available, the Festival will generate money that supports students, upgrades technology and helps us maintain our beautiful but aging buildings. There are some families--the Brotzmans, the Satterfields,the Bonners, the Webers, the Cummins who give above and beyond for the success of this venture. There are many who do their share and more. For all of these generous folks I am grateful. We surely can put the funds they generate to good use! We can also look to them as examples of volunteerism at its best--Young people can benefit from the example of these volunteers who give both their time and their treasure for something in which they believe--the community of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
1971--It Was a Very Good Year!
Two weekends ago I had the opportunity to attend the fortieth class reunion of the Class of 1971. It was a delightful event in so many ways! First of all, this group that graduated 51 strong, had never had a class reunion. Secondly, as they gathered, it was clear from their shrieks and shouts that they each had maintained a fondness for each other and still felt a connection to Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School. They shared many common memories of those formative years and stories abounded of the "senior cut day" that lasted only fifteen minutes, basketball, cheerleading and the selection of the cougar for the school mascot.(It sounded like the squirrel was in the running and I am certain that classes that followed were grateful for the choice of the mighty cougar!)Finally, the evening reminded me of the richness that every class brings to the ongoing story of our school and the value that alumni play in our future.
Members of the Class of 1971,diminished by the passing of six classmates, met in almost full attendance for an evening of good conversation, catching up, and sharing memories. Though several members of the class had remained in the Baltimore area, many came from afar for the reunion. Some arrived from Florida, Texas, and Virginia while some came from points north. The theme for their senior year was "Becoming" and many conversations of the evening centered on what they, in fact, became. The accomplishments of their adult lives were shared. Photos of children and grandchildren were passed from one to another. One class member did a great job of creating a booklet with recent biographical information that focused on "What We Became." What I saw that evening was a group of men and women who had shared their growing up years. In retrospect, they appeciated the caring teachers they had, and treasured the experiences in sports, plays, and in leadership roles that helped create the confident adults they became. Though many years passed, there was a bond that remained. As one classmate remarked,"We may not have done a great job of connecting over the years, but we were a class that got along and truly loved one another."
After I met the friendly and energetic members of the Clas of 1971 I began thinking of the dynamic that happens to all classes in a school. Each class is composed of diverse and unique individuals who achieve, accomplish, and succeed based on their own talents, determination, and gifts. Those individuals, however, form a class whose members bond. The class takes on a personality of its own! Some classes are known for their academic excellence, some for athletic prowess, and some for their sense of compassion and service. Each class contributes to the ongoing history and story of the school. Each class takes into itself what I like to call the "Carmel Spirit."
The Carmel Spirit includes the values that center on some foundational tenets. They include cherishing and building a sense of family in the school community, achieving academic excellence according to one's gifts, developing a willingness to serve others, and integrating faith into every aspect of life. This spirit is one which I hope all Carmel students "catch" and then create as they move forward in life. I could feel those qualities the other evening from the members of the Class of 1971 as I have from the classes with whom I have worked over the years.
It is my great hope that as young people graduate, reach adulthood and are able to reflect back on their Carmel experience with the wisdom of years, they appreciate what they learned. I also hope that they support the current efforts of the school to share the Carmel Spirit with a new generation of young people.
So, it was wonderful to meet the Class of 1971! Leonita and Margaret as well as others did a wonderful job of finding classmates, inviting, cajoling, and remembering. It was a special evening for all who attended including me! I know that the Carmel Spirit is thriving among the members of this class and I could tell--even forty years later--that 1971 was truly a very good year!
Members of the Class of 1971,diminished by the passing of six classmates, met in almost full attendance for an evening of good conversation, catching up, and sharing memories. Though several members of the class had remained in the Baltimore area, many came from afar for the reunion. Some arrived from Florida, Texas, and Virginia while some came from points north. The theme for their senior year was "Becoming" and many conversations of the evening centered on what they, in fact, became. The accomplishments of their adult lives were shared. Photos of children and grandchildren were passed from one to another. One class member did a great job of creating a booklet with recent biographical information that focused on "What We Became." What I saw that evening was a group of men and women who had shared their growing up years. In retrospect, they appeciated the caring teachers they had, and treasured the experiences in sports, plays, and in leadership roles that helped create the confident adults they became. Though many years passed, there was a bond that remained. As one classmate remarked,"We may not have done a great job of connecting over the years, but we were a class that got along and truly loved one another."
After I met the friendly and energetic members of the Clas of 1971 I began thinking of the dynamic that happens to all classes in a school. Each class is composed of diverse and unique individuals who achieve, accomplish, and succeed based on their own talents, determination, and gifts. Those individuals, however, form a class whose members bond. The class takes on a personality of its own! Some classes are known for their academic excellence, some for athletic prowess, and some for their sense of compassion and service. Each class contributes to the ongoing history and story of the school. Each class takes into itself what I like to call the "Carmel Spirit."
The Carmel Spirit includes the values that center on some foundational tenets. They include cherishing and building a sense of family in the school community, achieving academic excellence according to one's gifts, developing a willingness to serve others, and integrating faith into every aspect of life. This spirit is one which I hope all Carmel students "catch" and then create as they move forward in life. I could feel those qualities the other evening from the members of the Class of 1971 as I have from the classes with whom I have worked over the years.
It is my great hope that as young people graduate, reach adulthood and are able to reflect back on their Carmel experience with the wisdom of years, they appreciate what they learned. I also hope that they support the current efforts of the school to share the Carmel Spirit with a new generation of young people.
So, it was wonderful to meet the Class of 1971! Leonita and Margaret as well as others did a wonderful job of finding classmates, inviting, cajoling, and remembering. It was a special evening for all who attended including me! I know that the Carmel Spirit is thriving among the members of this class and I could tell--even forty years later--that 1971 was truly a very good year!
Saturday, October 1, 2011
The Power of Prayer
I was talking to our Athletic Director recently and he described some of the events of the past week as "surreal." In one sense he was correct, but in another it was a week that --as always-included the humorous, the happy, the generous, and the sombering. When you are surrounded with many students each day, each with their own ups and downs, there is always the possibility of drama both real and created! Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School, serving as a "home away from home" to more than six hundred students is just like that.
Last weekend we celebrated Homecoming at our school, a weekend full of pep rallies and athletic games which generate both school spirit and excitement. Last Friday began with an out of uniform day and all the students could wear school colors or their school sports jersey. At the pep rallies, one for the Lower School (k-5) and one for the Upper School (6-12) there was a sea of blue and gold and LOTS of noise! Cheerleaders led a competition yelling match , grade against grade. This long standing tradition is great fun and it allows kids to really get into the excitement of the day as they chant at the top of their lungs, "Spirit, spirit, we got spirit! How about you!" In addition to the shouting, all the members of the sports teams are introduced and there are some fun games with volunteers from each class. Both of the pep rallies were great events and the little ones especially were quite impressed by the chance to cheer for their older classmates. Being a Cougar fan starts at a young age and lasts forever!
That evening included a "dress up" dance for the high school age students which was sponsored by the Student Government. Seeing the girls with their new outfits, fancy hair and high heeled shoes and the guys with shirts, ties, and adult attitudes gave a glimpse of the young adults they are and the grown-ups they will become. They had a great time with dance competitions, great food (graciously prepared by several of our dedicated teachers--nothing is too much for the kids!) and lots of time with friends. Perhaps the most impressive part of the night for me, was the willingness of all the student leaders to set up the dance, clean up the debris at the end, and cheerfully cooperate with one another so that everyone including the teachers could look back at the evening and smile. This was a great example of leadership in the making. Big jobs, little jobs, glamorous jobs and not so glamourous jobs were all done with enthusiasm and good spirit.
Though the weather interfered with game plans, volleyball and men's and women's soccer games were all finally played between the raindrops during the next day. Though scores were mixed each team fought hard, played with spirit and good sportsmanship, and had fun.
Our football team played on Saturday evening and this is when the real drama began. As the first quarter started, our team showed some gusto and skill and played well. Since this is only our second season, folks were pleased that the Homecoming game had the possibilty of a winning outcome. But, in the second quarter, a sombering event happened and everyone was snapped into a different reality. Our quaterback, Kory Puller, was hit and at the end of the play did not get up. Josh Lamont, our Athletic Trainer, was quick to respond and verified that the injury was serious. Time passed and paramedics and eventually the Shock Trauma helicopter arrived. Kory was flown out and the prayers began.
The bottom line is that,after a very frightening several days and many assesments, Kory is recovereing and the great hope is that he will be 100% before too long. The secondary, but also important lesson in this story, revolves around the way that the community responded to the scare. After Kory left the game, the team, though certainly shaken and worried, decided to finish the game. They finished it by playing hard but not getting any fouls called and playing with skill and sportsmanship. They should be proud of themselves for stepping it up and I hope they know that I am proud of their ability to contain any negative reactions and channel their energy into good, fair, clean play.
The other students and teachers spent the weekend texting news about Kory and praying for him. A petition was prayed for him at every Mass that weekend at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church. Every student in every class prayed for his recovery throughout the next week. Cards were made and signed and sent. Kory was on our mind and in our heart. He did get out of the hospital and late in the week, I got word that he was in the gym. Of course I went down to see him but was caught up short. There he was still dealing with the headaches caused by his concussion, in a neck brace, a back brace, and in a wheel chair. The sight of this young, basically healthy, happy athlete, so compromised did more than give me pause.
These are my thoughts--How great in a Catholic school and community is it that we could all support Kory through our prayers? How powerful are those prayers as they carry our hopes and dreams to a God who makes all things possible! How grateful are we that this great young man is on the mend! How wonderful is it to see him, despite his obvious pain and discomfort, cheering for his classmates! Being a Cougar is more than playing games and cheering at pep rallies. It is being part of a community where people truly care about each other and love each other especially when things are tough. It is a faith community where we all believe in the power of prayer.
Now that the worst of that frightening event is over,we all should add a petition of thanksgiving to our prayers. We thank God for Kory's recovery and for our community. We should never take health, friendship, nor faith for granted nor forget our vulnerability. Our prayer should always include, "Thank you God!!!"
Last weekend we celebrated Homecoming at our school, a weekend full of pep rallies and athletic games which generate both school spirit and excitement. Last Friday began with an out of uniform day and all the students could wear school colors or their school sports jersey. At the pep rallies, one for the Lower School (k-5) and one for the Upper School (6-12) there was a sea of blue and gold and LOTS of noise! Cheerleaders led a competition yelling match , grade against grade. This long standing tradition is great fun and it allows kids to really get into the excitement of the day as they chant at the top of their lungs, "Spirit, spirit, we got spirit! How about you!" In addition to the shouting, all the members of the sports teams are introduced and there are some fun games with volunteers from each class. Both of the pep rallies were great events and the little ones especially were quite impressed by the chance to cheer for their older classmates. Being a Cougar fan starts at a young age and lasts forever!
That evening included a "dress up" dance for the high school age students which was sponsored by the Student Government. Seeing the girls with their new outfits, fancy hair and high heeled shoes and the guys with shirts, ties, and adult attitudes gave a glimpse of the young adults they are and the grown-ups they will become. They had a great time with dance competitions, great food (graciously prepared by several of our dedicated teachers--nothing is too much for the kids!) and lots of time with friends. Perhaps the most impressive part of the night for me, was the willingness of all the student leaders to set up the dance, clean up the debris at the end, and cheerfully cooperate with one another so that everyone including the teachers could look back at the evening and smile. This was a great example of leadership in the making. Big jobs, little jobs, glamorous jobs and not so glamourous jobs were all done with enthusiasm and good spirit.
Though the weather interfered with game plans, volleyball and men's and women's soccer games were all finally played between the raindrops during the next day. Though scores were mixed each team fought hard, played with spirit and good sportsmanship, and had fun.
Our football team played on Saturday evening and this is when the real drama began. As the first quarter started, our team showed some gusto and skill and played well. Since this is only our second season, folks were pleased that the Homecoming game had the possibilty of a winning outcome. But, in the second quarter, a sombering event happened and everyone was snapped into a different reality. Our quaterback, Kory Puller, was hit and at the end of the play did not get up. Josh Lamont, our Athletic Trainer, was quick to respond and verified that the injury was serious. Time passed and paramedics and eventually the Shock Trauma helicopter arrived. Kory was flown out and the prayers began.
The bottom line is that,after a very frightening several days and many assesments, Kory is recovereing and the great hope is that he will be 100% before too long. The secondary, but also important lesson in this story, revolves around the way that the community responded to the scare. After Kory left the game, the team, though certainly shaken and worried, decided to finish the game. They finished it by playing hard but not getting any fouls called and playing with skill and sportsmanship. They should be proud of themselves for stepping it up and I hope they know that I am proud of their ability to contain any negative reactions and channel their energy into good, fair, clean play.
The other students and teachers spent the weekend texting news about Kory and praying for him. A petition was prayed for him at every Mass that weekend at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church. Every student in every class prayed for his recovery throughout the next week. Cards were made and signed and sent. Kory was on our mind and in our heart. He did get out of the hospital and late in the week, I got word that he was in the gym. Of course I went down to see him but was caught up short. There he was still dealing with the headaches caused by his concussion, in a neck brace, a back brace, and in a wheel chair. The sight of this young, basically healthy, happy athlete, so compromised did more than give me pause.
These are my thoughts--How great in a Catholic school and community is it that we could all support Kory through our prayers? How powerful are those prayers as they carry our hopes and dreams to a God who makes all things possible! How grateful are we that this great young man is on the mend! How wonderful is it to see him, despite his obvious pain and discomfort, cheering for his classmates! Being a Cougar is more than playing games and cheering at pep rallies. It is being part of a community where people truly care about each other and love each other especially when things are tough. It is a faith community where we all believe in the power of prayer.
Now that the worst of that frightening event is over,we all should add a petition of thanksgiving to our prayers. We thank God for Kory's recovery and for our community. We should never take health, friendship, nor faith for granted nor forget our vulnerability. Our prayer should always include, "Thank you God!!!"
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